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Kimberly Fry Found Guilty Of Strangling Daughter, 8

Kimberly Fry Guilty

First Posted: 10/07/11 10:47 AM ET Updated: 12/07/11 05:12 AM ET

By LAURA CRIMALDI, Associated Press

SOUTH KINGSTOWN, R.I. -- A Rhode Island mother has been convicted of strangling her 8-year-old daughter in 2009 after the girl refused to take a bath and threw a two-hour tantrum.

Kimberly Fry grimaced Thursday as she was found guilty of second-degree murder in daughter Camden's death. She faces up to life in prison with the possibility of parole after 20 years.

Jurors deliberated 5 1/2 hours over two days before reaching their decision. They could consider second-degree murder or manslaughter charges.

Fry's lawyer called Camden's death "a tragic accident" and said the girl had attention deficit hyperactivity disorder and was prone to tantrums.

But prosecutors said Fry strangled Camden, then tucked her lifeless body into bed with her favorite stuffed animal. Camden's father found the girl dead in her bed the next morning.

 
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01:36 AM on 10/10/2011
jessix,
Are you serious ?right with no Parent or child are aliie. My son has adhd as well as a few of our friends children and yeah we have gone through fits throwing things, hitting walls so on and so forth but if she had looked up any information on line she would know how to deal with it. Over a bathe? There are Crisis hotlines you can call in every state. I have friends who have kids on 4 different medications. The ADHD is hard to handle Trust me I Know but she could have called family,the Dr even emergency room nurses can be someone to help they always say as long as the child is not a threat to their safety of the safety of others walk outside, call someone and pick your battles a bathe is not something to kill a child. Unless it is a threat to their safety or health as a Police Officer even if she would have called 911 we couldve helped 24/7.children are our future. There is no life wasted in helping a child. NONE !!!
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10:22 AM on 10/10/2011
You are right there, I have 2 children both ADHD, as well as oppositional defiance disorder and authority defiance disorder, bipolar, all these were diagnosed by a trained psychologist, the one who is now 17 has outgrown all hers but my 13 year old still has them in spades. What a fit he can throw , but I would never in a million years harm my kids , not for all the money in the world, I Love them too much to hurt them. You learn patience and understanding and picking your battles. Let the little things slide get the big ones. Main thing is consistency, without that hang it up.
05:49 PM on 10/09/2011
Not all children are alike. Neither are all parents.

I feel bad for this mother who had a child she could not control. What do all you people suggest? Call someone? Get therapy? Find another way to deal with the child?

Don't you think this woman already tried everything until she was driven over the edge by one of the worst sounds in the world - that of an out-of-control child shrieking at the top of her lungs for two hours?

Does anyone think this mother enjoyed bathing her child who didn't want to take a bath? How about hearing nothing but "NO" and resistence to every effort she made at mothering properly? Who should she have called at bedtime when these tantrums most likely take place? What else could this woman have been doing with her life for all those wasted hours she spent fighting with an unappreciative child?

Not every parent willingly gives up his or her life in order to have a child. The parent with many interests is the last parent that should be paired with a child that needs constant care and supervision 24/7 but this often happens. Such a parent is doomed to wasing years of his or her life
09:36 PM on 10/09/2011
No, she didn't obviously try to walk away from the situation and give her a bath another time.
10:18 PM on 10/09/2011
Your right, not all children are alike and neither are parents. But she was the adult and yes that is exactly what she should have done, called someone, find another way at the moment, or walk away, & yes Therapy. I am sure this wasnt the first time she had a tantrum. So there are other things she could have done. But she chose to kill her and then put her to bed and let the dad find her. Thats what makes this so sick. Because if it was a moment of insanity/rage, i am sure after a short time she would have realized what she had done & called someone. But she was sick enough to go on with her night, probably sleep, while her daughter who is an innocent 8 year old is lying dead in her bed. So she is a disgusting woman who got what she deserved. She apparently had no remorse for what she did afterwards. As far as your last paragraph goes, that is part of the responsibility of being a parent. That is your child, you do what you have to do. It is a shame how you say parent is doomed to a wasting years. Goes to show what kind of parent you probably are. God help us!
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10:29 AM on 10/10/2011
I have 2 children who were worse than hers ever was, but I got help through many different aspects, psychologists, respite care,family ,friends and doctors. I picked my battles, walked away when I needed a breather, but never once laid a hand on my children. Mine had ADHD,bipolar,authority defiance disorder,oppositonal defiance disorder. It was never easy but I always managed. My kids are now 17 and 13. While the 17 year old has outgrown hers, the 13 year not so much. But I work with him and teach him, most of all patience and consistency is your friend.
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02:37 PM on 10/08/2011
what happend 2 the only adhd we know 2 slove our tantrums an misbehavin is DAD !!!! NO PILLS NO B/S FACT !!!
11:22 AM on 10/09/2011
I'm trying to understand what you are trying to say but it just makes zero sense.
01:53 AM on 10/10/2011
me 2...can't make sense of what gina victoria typed.
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07:30 AM on 10/10/2011
I think she meant to say Dad solved the tantrums. I'm used to reading gibberish. I worked in an office where one guy specialized in gibberish.
12:39 PM on 10/10/2011
Well, when someone has a diagnosed medical condition; it takes A LOT more than just Dad ...if a child is chemically imbalanced just scolding or spanking the child will not work... FACT. This just shows your level ignorance here...please do not post again Gina; it's highly ignorant & you look a fool.
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02:12 PM on 10/08/2011
This would should have gotten life in prison to say the least. She is no different than a mad dog. She hould have been put down
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02:11 PM on 10/08/2011
"restoreUSA's" comment is absolutely nuts.
02:04 PM on 10/08/2011
It is always, ALWAYS up to the parent to maintain calm and order with a child no matter HOW bad that child behaves and what conditions they have. And if a child gets too much for you there are places to turn to for help. That may not have been the case 50 years ago but in today's world, there is NO excuse for abusing or mistreating a child in ANY way. There are far too many places you can go for help and with all the publicity today EVERY parent knows they can get assistance. This woman is going to have to face God one day and take responsibility for what she did to this child and I wonder if she thinks her poor excuse will be good enough?
12:40 AM on 10/09/2011
No, there are not tons of places to get help. Family of 4 income of 40K and paying part of that to insurance. The 600 hundred a month insurance does not cover any behavioral. One child has autism and we pay out of pocket for his needs. Now My youngest, who is not autistic has really lost it tantrums that would blow your mind. I went every where Family and children, county health, church and no one could help. We made to much money. $40k was to much made me laugh. I do not wish for you to have to go through a 2 hour fit in which no punishment reward or what ever has any effect. Judge not
09:32 PM on 10/09/2011
Come on, it was a child. It's not about judging, its about using common sense. Pick your battles. Does it really matter in the long run if your child takes a bath that night or not. Now your child is dead and you say they threw a 2 hour fit?????
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10:36 AM on 10/10/2011
There is something called respite care, that is free or reduced prices in almost every state, for children like hers.Those places dont care if you dont have a means to pay, they will take them anyway. Such a tragic loss to lose a child just because they didnt want to take a bath at that time.
01:13 PM on 10/08/2011
baby killers should not have an easy time in prison.
01:07 PM on 10/08/2011
News Flash!!! There is no such thing as ADHD. It is a BS excusse for people to let their kids act up and do what ever they want. Lazy parenting. Then the kid grows up and calls him or herself bipolar so they can get by with whatever they want and blame it on the "dissorder". Nothing that a good spanking back when the kid was little and controllable wouldn't have stopped. People need to be accountable for their kids and for themselves and quit blamming these made up dissorders
03:13 PM on 10/08/2011
You have no idea what you are even saying! I have a ADHD child and how dare you call me lazy and a bad parent! You know nothing and need to keep your comments to yourself! You sound very uneducated.
10:45 AM on 10/09/2011
Don't let it get to you. Obliviously this is a very uneducated person who needs to get the facts straight before talking about something he/she knows so little about.
08:44 AM on 10/10/2011
It seems the ignorant and uninformed are always the first to throw out their opines.
As a health professional myself, I would like to say that ADHD is a valid diagnosis however our behavior is a direct result of what is going on with our brain chemistry. All the facts of this woman's case with strangling her poor daughter are not known and one cannot make a blanket judgement about her case without knowing all the details first. The mother's reality was obviously clouded and had she been in reality at the time of the strangling, this probably would have never taken place.
Mental illness is sad and unfortunate and coping mechanisms were not in place in this situation. Had the mom had some sort of coping mechanisms, she would have removed herself from the situation. She was clearly unable to process the situation in the correct way at the time.
Do not judge until you have walked the line in the same circumstances yourself---rhondairoberts. My guess is you are still young and inexperienced in life but think you know it ALL! That is a dangerous combination.
03:37 PM on 10/08/2011
You're wrong, ADHD children's brain develops differently than the mass majority. ADHD has three componets: Inattention, impulsivity and hyperactivity. With that said it is again the degree to the behavior that the child exhibits that indicates that there is a problem. Next studies indicate that the frontal lobe of children with ADHD may have low levels of dopamine that could cause problems with communication among the neurotransmitters. Also genes play a function with ADHD since studies show that when one twin has ADHD that the other will mostly have it. Finally, now this is the really big componant that people don't get, its the environment in which a child is in determines the severity of ADHD. Our lives are very complicated, children are exposed to so many environmental factors that can produce the condition to appear. So again parents, you determine how your children turn out and thus are responsible for them.
12:53 PM on 10/08/2011
The issue is NOT that a mother killed child. The issue is vile system supporting jobs for all kinds of Roman Civil Law (culture of death) municipal employees - U know the system: judges, lawyers, prosecutors, social workers, mental health officials, doctors, psychologists, jailers-prison workers/officials , parole officers, probation officers, & all the other Hangers-on-this system. It's law enforcement growth industry-means big bucks & jobs for everyone. Bottom line is THIS system was created by bankers to sustain the borrowing of debt money from banks by turning our lives into constant emergencies that require these people to line their pockets playing a part. None of these people R interested in simple solutions as easy as what Christ taught with: "Love Ur neighbor as Urself". We could have all kinds of simple-easy ways to help people deal with emotional problems. We could have "ambulance" style volunteers who could be called on a moments notice, 10 people rush to aid of parents not coping with a child & help them - nothing penal, no police, no arrests, just go help people. Imagine 10 people showing up at the request of this woman to help her bath her child without "losing it". People knowing they could call sympathetic, non-arresting volunteers would ask for help when down. Nowhere R these capabilities setup for anyone, all we have is the "arrest & work em through a despotic oppressive system" that makes jobs for everyone at the best intersts of no-one especially children.
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01:26 PM on 10/08/2011
Kimberly Fry Found Guilty Of Strangling Daughter, 8

"The issue is NOT that a mother killed child" Well, I for one am so glad you straightened me out of this. Boy, they sure had me fooled thinking the issue was really about this woman killing her daughter.
02:53 PM on 10/09/2011
Hi goncrazi - I think you have. Would you go read AGAIN my post? It says, the issue is NOT that the mother killed the child, the issue we have NO SUPPORT SYSTEM to help parents. We only go into their lives AFTER the fact and screw them over, screw over the family, parents and children. It's called the law enforcemnt growth industry and the CPS/make money for counties industry. It is not interested in the best intersts of children at all, but only to make money for municipal corporations AND give people oppressive against the people jobs. So read the above AGAIN. Were the system promoted above IN PLACE, the child would not have been killed. THAT IS THE ISSUE.
01:33 PM on 10/08/2011
Attention psych ward, attention psych ward. One of the inmates has broken into the office and is on the computer again. Use the taser if necessary.
02:51 PM on 10/08/2011
@natal plum... I LITERALLY LMAO! when I read that. P~E~R~F~E~C~T! LOL
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12:40 PM on 10/08/2011
I hope she never sees the light of day again till she dies!
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12:38 PM on 10/08/2011
No excuses. This is a vicious killer of her own poor kid. If we were not so civilized, (as they say we are), a shot to the back of the head immediately after sentence. Save a lot of money. I will say it again: No mercy for baby killers.
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12:33 PM on 10/08/2011
Not that i condone her behavior - but I also understand that a child wit such repated tantrums can make a caretaker snap. Unfortunately parents of children with disabilities do not get enough help ... No wonder they are drivin over the edge ...
12:02 PM on 10/08/2011
How does someone "accidentally" strangle and 8 yr old?
11:15 AM on 10/08/2011
To the lady who said she is so fortunate not to have a ADHD child. We feel fortunate to have our ADHD child who is creative, personality plus and like any other child that has great strengths and weaknesses. Tantrums are part of it and knowing how to handle when they get "stuck" gets us through it. These kids get stuck because they can't figure things out or find solutions to solve their problems. Punishment isn't helpful. What truly helps an ADHD child is structure, a regular routine, adequate sleep and rest, nourishing meals on time, spending time with another adult who cares (other than the parents), building their strengths, self esteem, regular excercise, involving them is activities like swimming, gymnastics and other sports they like and setting rules for them to follow, rewarding them for good behavior when they do. Parent involment in their school and study, getting accomodations for their learning, parent/teacher communication for their needs all plays part in their success. But most of all, acceptance, loving your child for who he is. Is the work of a child with ADHD difficult? Of course it is but with a lot of love and patience when they lose focus works and is worth it because your child is worth it..
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11:52 AM on 10/10/2011
Nicely put, I wouldnt trade my 2 kids with all their problems for a minute. They are creative, funny, smart, and very trying at times, but I love them and I take an active role in everything they do. My daughter who is now 17 has outgrown most of hers, but here is an excerpt of what she wrote me for my birthday this year. "I just want you to know that I am the person I am today because of you. You taught me to be independent, strong, stand up for myself, care for people even if I dont know them, laugh, smile and be the best person I can be.You try to get me to understand things I dont understand. I'm a strong person because of you, I love that you always believe in me, even when I dont believe in myself." There is nothing I wont do for my kids and this is the reason why.
11:28 PM on 10/10/2011
What a beautiful person you are. Your kindness, love and acceptance brought up a lovely daughter and the best that she is today. Your words and what she wrote are very encourgaing to others who go through the trying times you have had. They are so worth it!
08:26 AM on 10/08/2011
Some disposable ear plugs might have been a better solution for turning the stress level down a bit and for keeping mom from going bonkers.