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Steve Jobs' Personal Life Was Kept From The Public Eye, Remained Highly Secretive

Steve Jobs Father Phone Call

The Huffington Post     First Posted: 10/07/11 04:02 PM ET Updated: 12/07/11 05:12 AM ET

Steve Jobs was famous -- even infamous -- for keeping Apple's best secrets closely guarded, but it turns out he kept his private life even more shrouded in mystery.

While many feel a personal loss with the passing of the tech legend, few know much about his life outside of business. In fact, a 2010 CBS poll found that 69 percent of Americans didn't know enough about him to have a real opinion. In the wake of his death, however, more details have emerged about his highly secretive private life.

For instance, Jobs refused to speak with his biological father. In turn, Jobs' father, Abdulfattah "John" Jandali, reportedly never had the chance to say goodbye to his son.

The 80-year-old vice president at Boomtown Hotel Casino in Reno, Nev. apparently tried to reach out to his son via email prior to his death, but never received a response, according to ABC News. The two have long been estranged, as Jobs reportedly refused to speak to his biological dad for some time.

From "Good Morning America":

Abdulfattah "John" Jandali, a Syrian man who fathered Jobs, had emailed his son a few times in a tentative effort to make contact. The father never called the son because he feared Jobs would think the dad who had given him up was now after his fortune.

And Jobs never responded to his father's emails.

According to USA Today, the Apple visionary's father has declined to comment on his son's death.

"I really don't have anything to say," Jandali told the Reno Journal-Gazette.

Due to Jandali's reluctance to publicly address Jobs' death, it's unclear whether or not there was any communication between the two during Jobs' final days.

Jandali recently came into the public spotlight following his son's resignation as CEO of Apple. With much speculation on the state of Jobs' health at the time, many media outlets began tracking down the casino executive for interviews, according to the Las Vegas Sun.

Oddly enough, as ABC points out, Jobs' initial refusal to acknowledge his own daughter, Lisa, with his former high school girlfriend seemed unfortunate in the face of his own relationship with his father. However, Jobs did eventually accept paternity of his daughter.

Aside from Lisa, Jobs had a family, which was perhaps the most the most public part of his private life. He and his wife, Laurene Powell were married in a Buddhist ceremony at Yosemite State Park in 1991. They had three children: Reed Paul, Erin Sienna, and Eve.

But few know that Jobs dated singer/songwriter Joan Baez in college as well. That relationship, which is discussed in the biography,"The Second Coming of Steve Jobs," was confirmed by a a friend of Baez, according to ABC. Jobs may have also dated a number of other celebrity women, prior to his marriage.

Aside from his family, few even know about Jobs' background. Like Mark Zuckerberg and other visionaries, Jobs was actually a college dropout, but didn't quite leave for the same reasons. He dropped out of Reed College in Oregon after one semester with little guidance, frequently switched jobs, and even backpacked around India, according to CNN.

The Apple co-founder's private life is sure to gain more attention in the coming months, with the impending release of his authorized biography on October 24. Details of his life to be contained in the book still have not been disclosed by the publisher.

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Pembrokelib
12:02 PM on 10/09/2011
He is famous for what he did at Apple. His personal life is just that - personal - and no ones business.
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ejljr
When all else fails, read the damn instructions!
11:49 PM on 10/08/2011
I for one had lost my respect for him when he used his money to put himself first for an organ transplant. People sometimes wait years to receive an organ. By putting himself first, who knows, someone could have died waiting.
10:27 PM on 10/08/2011
One of the most interesting things to me about both Steve Jobs and Bill Gates, is that when people refer to people the age of 55 to 56 as "old" I don't think it occurs to them that because of these "old people" they wouldn't have computers, cell phones you can text, play games, take photos with, etc. that "Young" people tend to claim as their own. Its the visionaries like Steve Jobs that made the world what it is today. Thanks Steve..
10:09 PM on 10/08/2011
Steve Jobs was a very talented and inovative man.But he was not perfect.He was just as imperfect as EVERYBODY else on this planet.Please don't make him out to be God.Just because he had a God given talent that brought him fame and wealth does not mean he was a good person.
10:05 PM on 10/08/2011
so sad
09:54 PM on 10/08/2011
These articles our a pathetic outcry for a story. The man was a legendary who revolutionized the technology world. Give him credit, where credit is due. Enough with all the nonsense articles that wait till he passes to start creating a stir on who he was and his private life, that's a low attempt. R.I.P Steve.
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SuzyScorp
Norman Reedus as Daryl Dixon
09:27 PM on 10/08/2011
I think I heard that Steve Jobs dropped out of college, is that true? I wouldn't be surprised, as another genius, George Lucas dropped out of college, as well... But went on to make a little movie called Star Wars! lol..
09:43 PM on 10/08/2011
Yes, that's true. He was a student at Reed college for about a year, but dropped out because he felt guilty that his adoptive parents were paying away their life's earnings for his education, when he did not even know what he wanted to do with his life. In a graduation address at Stanford, Jobs said that dropping out of college was the best decision he ever made.
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Bids Well
08:03 AM on 10/09/2011
Didja read the article before you commented?
09:14 PM on 10/08/2011
I'm intrigued. A much deeper, much deeper person than I imagined.
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09:06 PM on 10/08/2011
Yuk he was a Buddhist....
08:55 PM on 10/08/2011
Steven Jobs wanted to keep his private life, well, private. Thanks for honoring his wishes. (sarcasm)
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cribbisque
08:32 PM on 10/08/2011
Steve was adopted into a loving family. If Steve didn't want to talk to people tha weren't part of his upbringing, I suppose that is his business and I don't judge him for it. Not every adoptee is looking for his natural parents.
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mochaview
Big Money Talks Too Much...OCCUPY!
08:00 PM on 10/08/2011
Wish his products were made here in the USA. Feel for the factory workers who committed suicide in record numbers in China. Would like for people to question just how much it actually costs to manufacture that expensive equipment vs. the retail price and then wish for backlash against not only Apple but also against Microsoft who replaces American workers with H1-b/H2 visa workers while we blindly buy their products like sheep. In Zuccotti Park, that is something they're not willing to deal with that easily. I know, I've asked them just how far they're willing to go towards breaking the corporatocracy. We can scream and holler the loudest but the only two things will bring these hollow people to their knees: Massive loss of profit and natural disaster. Oh yes, a huge boycott of exactly how much all of their high priced items cost especially since products are costing more and coming in smaller packages. Also, one day, out of the blue, a tornado needs to hit the financial institutions all at once, decisively going to specific spots like the stock exchange. They deserve to have angry people right outside that building on that actual wall and broad st. where slaves built that wall on wall street and were also sold along with the labor of indentured servants from Africa, Europe, Indonesia and from the Lenape Tribe right where that damned building stands.
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hein
09:07 PM on 10/08/2011
The simple reason why Apple's and Microsoft's products are not manufactured here is that their CEO's do not want a repeat of our automobile industry and their unions. You can whine all you want, but business people do what they do to make money. NOT to make a bunch of extortionists rich.
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mochaview
Big Money Talks Too Much...OCCUPY!
01:30 AM on 10/09/2011
Now that there are a number of fake Apple stores all around China, I'll be happy to buy a cheap, well made knock off the goods and help the Chinese bring all of the greedy, tunnel visioned, soul less capitalists like yourself to your knees. I tell the protesters in Zuccotti Park that screaming feels good but boycotting will have them shaking in their shoes behind their fancy glass desks.
You do realize that by bringing all the technology over there, the Chinese have the upper hand and will one day stop smiling in your faces and started showing you who they really are? No? Ok, you'll see one day. When you dig a ditch for others, in this case, the American workers, don't forget to dig one for yourself.
07:40 PM on 10/08/2011
Great man with great idea's. As with most people you really don't know much about a persons past. Unless the tell you. I have always been a fan of his desktop computers and still have a working blue bondi Imac. Great fun and always good looking. Rest in peace, you did more than most in this life.
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SuspiciousMinds3
07:17 PM on 10/08/2011
I don't know much about Steve Jobs, I know he was sick and he died young, he also had a lot of overpriced items that most people couldn't afford. My daughter bought me an Ipod player, no instructions came with it and I couldn't get them on pdf so it sits there, unused and expensive.and by the time I found a way to use it there was already a new miodel/generation out, like 4 weeks later. Sorry, I'm sure he made wonderful things but no one better complain aobut the economy if they can pay 2 and 3 hundred dollars for a small Ipad or Iphone, they are pretty darn expensive. I'm sorry but thats the way I feel. I do hope he RIP though, he seemed like an innovative interesting man. He authorized his own biography to be published after his death, so I dont' think anyone is really intruding on his privacy..
07:03 PM on 10/08/2011
I wonder if this millionaire ever repaid the money he stole from his "partner" in the early days?