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Andy Boyle Live-Tweets Burger King Breakup

Andy Boyle

First Posted: 11/09/11 07:32 PM ET Updated: 11/10/11 10:00 AM ET

Celebrity divorces have long been tabloid fodder (think Kim Kardashian), but what happens when an everyday couple finds their marital troubles broadcast all over the Internet?

That's what happened Monday when Boston Globe web developer Andy Boyle live-tweeted a couple's breakup in a Boston Burger King, complete with photos and video. The episode started innocently enough:


Andy Boyle
I am listening to a marriage disintegrate at a table next to me in this restaurant. Aaron Sorkin couldn't write this any better.

Boyle then continued with the drama-filled play-by-play, including the cause of the fight:


Andy Boyle
She thinks it is unfair that he gets to play video games and she has to clean when "his mother" tells her. We agree.

The argument's pinnacle:


Andy Boyle
"Why did you even marry me?" he asks. "Because I loved you," she responds. "Loved me?" We all notice the past tense.

And the resolution:


Andy Boyle
She comes back in. She apologizes. He shrugs. They walk into the vestibule and he sorta hugs her. They depart.

This isn't the first time someone has live-tweeted a couple's presumed private moment. In March, comedian Donald Glover tweeted a couple having sex at a Bank of America ATM, including photos.

Which brings us to the question -- is it okay to document a breakup, or is it an invasion of privacy? Let us know on Twitter (hashtag #BurgerKingBreakup) and in the comments.

 
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johnjfoote
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02:17 AM on 11/11/2011
Marrige is dead, women want to have it all. Controll is their game but men are blamed for controlling. Do I sound bitter? Women lie all the time about the smallest thing to the largest. If I could have a redoo I would just have women friends for pals and sex and call it a day. Tweet that
01:12 AM on 11/11/2011
This is also fate's way of telling that couple that they should eat healthier. It's Burger King Karma and it never brings good things.
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hadafaone
08:41 PM on 11/10/2011
I was in a restaurant the other day and overheard the couple in the table next to us order their meal. She order the poached salmon with mashed potatoes and he ordered a steak, med with a salad. Ahhhhhhhh...
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june53
Common Sense with Civility, Please!
09:58 AM on 11/11/2011
I get the irony & sarcasm, I really do. I almost wish smoking were legal in restaurants & cell
phones, et al were not ~ and I never smoked nor like the smell but it sure beats all the
overheard phone calls, texting and mumbling from those around me inside what is suppose
to be a place to enjoy a meal with friends & loved ones. I'll take second hand smoke anyday
over the crass and very uncivilized behavior of those who must 'stay connected' and tell the
world [through color commentary, llike a sports game] what they order, how it was served,
when they want a refill on coffee & the ubiquitous urge to express their need to find the 'john' -
What happened to common sense & courtesy. I can't believe the nonsense people feel
compelled to share nor the people who actually "follow" them. Twitter is a joke on us and we
are the victims of this Punk''d mentality. Oy! Even the news channels are using Facebook,
Twitter and Google+ to add "exposure" to their programming schemes. Enough, already.
08:16 PM on 11/10/2011
There is no expectation of privacy if what you are doing is in a public venue. Restaurant, public park, etc.

However, this is such a thing as discretion. There was a time when, if one heard private matters in a public place, one made a hasty but discreet withdrawal of one's person from the event. There is also the little matter of appropriateness, the fitness of things. Why make something public that one would not want made public if positions were reversed?
BBlaw16
It just. Doesn't. Matter.
03:57 PM on 11/10/2011
Legally, of course, in good taste, another issue.
02:22 PM on 11/10/2011
I agree and disagree, if you do something in public then yeah it can be tweeted about but it is NOT RIGHT to have people unknowningly take pictures or camera footage of ANYTHING!! Especially to post online! Companies have to get permission to use or post pictures or footage of you! Besides, what if that person were in the witness protection program you could have just cost him or her their safety. Possibly even their life!!
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metalsmithgirl71
Just say NO to GMO's!
05:01 AM on 11/11/2011
i agree. i've stopped more than one person from taking photos of me and everyone that knows me knows what will happen if they post a photo of my without my permission.
02:19 PM on 11/10/2011
What measure of a man does this? It's fine because he overhears it? The young couple have more responsibility to 'keep it at home' than the writer to 'mind his own business'? Would any of this been different if this writer were in a 5 star restaurant? I don't think it's ok to document anything without permission, at least according to the NFL. Someone said Andy Sorkin blows. (?) Andy Boyle does too.
01:50 PM on 11/10/2011
Ha. If you are having a marital issue in public then I don't see why it matters if someone tweets it...you obviously don't care if you have an audience in the first place or you'd save it for home.
01:32 PM on 11/10/2011
What's next? Will he follow me into the john and tweet about my bowel movements??

"He just let a ripper go and I heard a small splash"....
01:27 PM on 11/10/2011
A person tweet that 2 people are having a martial spat in Burger King is not news. It patheticness. Write real news story and quit giving attention to BS. GOD, PLEASE BLESSED THE IDIOTS THAT YOU ALLOWED TO BE CREATED! WHEN IS STUPIDITY THE NORMAL AND INTELLIGENCE A THING OF THE PAST? I AM SHOUTINGHTIS REQUEST BECUASE DOING IT ANY OTHER WAY IS NOT BE HEARD!!
01:11 PM on 11/10/2011
You wouldn't mind if those pictures/v­ideos included comments about what you're wearing, the phone conversati­on you might be having, the website you might be looking at on your smartphone (if someone can record your actions why not just look over your shoulder and read your e-mails too)? .Watch - http://tinyurl.com/82getrx
01:10 PM on 11/10/2011
If you don't want your dirty laundry aired don't air it!
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metalsmithgirl71
Just say NO to GMO's!
05:00 AM on 11/11/2011
it sounds like they were just having a normal volume conversation at the table next to some nosey jerk.
12:48 PM on 11/10/2011
Aaron Sorkin blows
01:15 AM on 11/11/2011
So do you
10:55 AM on 11/10/2011
I agree its not invading their privacy .. it you are having your arguments in public its PUBLIC ... I am always amazed at the things I overhear .. When I was 'young' people walking around talking to thin air were just considered to be 'touched' .. now I know its because of all the technology but dang!! arguing / cursing > telling private details of your life to thin air 'Loudly' where everyone within hearing distance can hear ... not very smart at all IMO ... (and if you have to yell to get your voice heard w the Bluetooth you either need a new phone or a new carrier) ...
10:10 AM on 11/10/2011
No, it's not an invasion of privacy. They are in a freaking Burger King for goodness sakes. Those are discussions people should have at HOME or in their THERAPIST office.
12:01 PM on 11/10/2011
So, using your logic, it's OK for someone to take pictures of you and even video and post it on the Internet without telling you they're doing that? After all you're just hanging out at Burger King, in public. You wouldn't mind if those pictures/videos included comments about what you're wearing, the phone conversation you might be having, the website you might be looking at on your smartphone (if someone can record your actions why not just look over your shoulder and read your e-mails too)? That is pretty much the text-book definition of voyeurism - vicariously getting a thrill from seeing something we shouldn't be seeing. Frankly, why can't people like Andy Boyle just mind their own @#!*$ business?
12:55 PM on 11/10/2011
It's absolutely ok as it is in the public domain, whether that be synopsizing and event via tweets or recording images by smart phones for later posting on YouTube.
For it to be an act of voyeurism, there would have to be by law some reasonable expectation of privacy separating the action from its audience. I hardly think a public, vocal argument qualifies. And like it or not, this typifies an act protected under the First Amendment.