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Man Marries Dead Girlfriend In Joint Funeral And Wedding Ceremony In Thailand (PHOTOS)

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First Posted: 01/20/12 07:22 PM ET Updated: 01/20/12 07:22 PM ET

A man recently married his deceased girlfriend in a combination funeral and wedding ceremony.

Chadil Deffy, also known as Deff Yingyuen, placed a ring on the finger of Sarinya "Anne" Kamsook, his girlfriend of 10 years, during the ceremony in Thailand's Surin province.

The couple had planned to get married in the future, but Yingyuen wanted to focus on his studies before tying the knot, the Thai-Asean News (TAN) Network reported.

Unfortunately, Kamsook unexpectedly died in an accident before the couple could set a date.

According to the Pattaya Daily News, the couple met at Thailand's Eastern Asia University nearly a decade ago, and wreaths were placed around campus in memory of Kamsook following her death.

Photos and footage of the ceremony were posted on Facebook and YouTube.

And while some thought the service a bit strange, others expressed their sympathy for the groom.

"...I didn't know her, but in your photos, she looks young and full of life. I can't image the impact her death has caused in the lives of her loved ones. It was a very moving gesture of love, very moving. It makes you rethink a lot of things in life, things you take for granted," Facebook user Alejandra Yanez wrote in spanish on Yingyuen's page.

Onsiri Pravattiyagul, a friend of the groom, wrote an opinion column addressing Yingyuen's intentions and the media speculation his story has prompted. The piece, featured on the Bangkok Times, included the following:

Chadil wrote matter-of-factly online -- and would later give interviews in the same vein -- explaining that the motivation for this display was guilt, pure and simple: He felt he hadn't done enough for his girlfriend of 10 years while she was alive. Before her sudden death in a road accident, she had suggested that he marry her. But he had demurred, putting the idea on hold.

The "wedding" was his attempt to right a wrong, however belated the gesture might have been.

 
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212to631
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12:31 PM on 01/26/2012
Don't know what to say about this....torn. Part of me feels so horrible for this guy, so sad. Part of me thinks he is so sweet, trying to make up for what he didn't give her during her life. Part of me also thinks this is wacky- like what's the point besides the emotional one? Part of me is also very creeped out....she's DEAD....and he's putting a ring on a corpse?!! Idk...touching though, i guess
01:30 PM on 01/23/2012
Some of these comments are just rude and distasteful! SMH!!! Although this is something I'd never do, I can understand how he must feel. Would I do it? NO! But I can understand it.
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insrob
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07:29 PM on 01/20/2012
Does he get to collect insurance?
07:15 AM on 01/21/2012
I think that might considered a "dead issue" for him
07:21 PM on 01/20/2012
I hope they warmed her up first?
07:14 PM on 01/20/2012
I once had a wife who was dead in bed.
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insrob
my other micro-bio is intelligent
07:26 PM on 01/20/2012
LOL keyword HAD fanned
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insrob
my other micro-bio is intelligent
06:59 PM on 01/20/2012
Does anyone know if she said " I Do" ?
07:10 PM on 01/20/2012
no she gave him the silent treatment I guess she was just dieing to marry him
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insrob
my other micro-bio is intelligent
07:21 PM on 01/20/2012
LOL You may now kiss the corpse! fanned
06:57 PM on 01/20/2012
Grief makes people do irrational things, I guess. This is more disturbing than sweet. If I were her family, I would have none of it.
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moderndaywarrior
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06:53 PM on 01/20/2012
As long as there isn't a Honeymoon.
factorystock1
If your not 1st your Last
06:50 PM on 01/20/2012
Well that is one way to stiff him at the alter, and from here on all he is goin' to get is a stiff time. LOL
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Anne Marie313
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06:47 PM on 01/20/2012
I think it is kind of sweet, it strikes me as more of a completing the wish of the deceased. He wanted her to be known as his wife, to go through with the promise he made of marrying her. Although it might seem a bit unorthodox, my thought is that it is not like he is going to violate the body afterwards, people who think that really turn this beautiful gesture into something grotesque. I think this should be something that we should all walk away from with the reminder to never take our loved ones for granted.
07:29 PM on 01/20/2012
Anne is single and ready to mingle....
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oldstuff
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06:46 PM on 01/20/2012
However belated.
06:44 PM on 01/20/2012
All of you who posted ill attempts at humor should be ashamed.
factorystock1
If your not 1st your Last
06:56 PM on 01/20/2012
Just lookin' at the bright side.
10:37 PM on 01/20/2012
K... I need to lighten up!!
12:45 AM on 01/21/2012
What I think is shameful is the wait over a decade to marry someone you profess to love and then, after she dies and you put her through a ridiculous ceremony she isn't alive to witness, to admit it is out of guilt not blind love.
06:43 PM on 01/20/2012
Well at least he didn't try to marry a guy.
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commonsensor2009
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06:37 PM on 01/20/2012
I wonder if her family had to come up with a dowry?
06:28 PM on 01/20/2012
OH NOWWW he wants to marry her...really???? That's just gross and freaky. Wish she could just live again long enough to sit up and slap him for not marrying her after 10 years of going together.